Thread:Cyberweasel89/@comment-2089817-20200227050534/@comment-862718-20200305182015

DevilSlayer123 wrote: I honestly can't talk about how the discussion about Nagi's Gender began this since it started before I found this site and even after finding the site, I was focusing more on editing pages and addings in missings things. The first time that I did hear about it was when I was wondering about the various edits on Nagi's page and why his page was suddenly locked.

And I admit that I was incorrect in saying that someone who crossdress and transgender was the similar thing. Then why defend and stand by a decision made by a previous admin when there's some rather concerning evidence that he might have done it out of personal biases and discrimination towards a marginalized group?

Oh, I don't actually recall you saying that those are similar things... I was referring to how I said the opposite in another Wiki, and one of the admins tried to use this and a banning to discredit me.

What happened was, in another Wiki, there was an article for a transwoman character in a visual novel called "Happiness." Apparently, people had tried to vandalize the article with transphobic comments, so the admin of the Wiki locked the page and left a comment as to why in the comment section underneath the article. Someone in the comment section mentioned that various crossdressing characters in other anime are actually trans, like Astolfo from Fate and Hideri from Blend S. I was explaining to this person that Astolfo and Hideri identify as men, they just enjoy dressing up like women to look cute and femine. To try and say that, if you dress like a woman, you MUST be trans, is to effectively engage in toxic gender roles and beliefs in toxic masculinity, and that just simply dressing like a woman doesn't make someone a woman. It's down to what they identify as. So, effectively, I posted a common on the Happiness Wiki saying "Crossdressers are not transwomen," and one of the admins here dug it up and tried to pull it out of context to say I had ulterior, underhanded motives for being here.

As for that Wiki that banned me, they had an official Discord server that I was banned from for reasons that are still unclear to me. The Discord server has a forum page on the Wiki, so I asked why I was banned there. The admins told me that I cannot talk about the official Discord server on the official Discord server's forum page, then refused to tell me where I CAN talk about it, and then just... banned me when I kept trying to find out who I could ask and where. Since it was just a tiny fanwork Wiki, I chock it up to it being a small community with administration who aren't really capable of fully handling the responsibility of fair leadership, but your guess is as good as mine.